My Weekend In Pictures (and words) + A Timbuktu Catastrophe!!!

Thursday

The kids are back from their holiday!!!

And thank goodness for that, as they are the only ones who could have helped me with the mega-Timbuktu catastrophe I encountered this weekend.

For a while now, Greta Timbuktu's belly has been protruding and she ALWAYS seems to be nodding off to sleep. I often wondered about this, because it's truly weird..its almost impossible to carry out even a short conversation with Greta.


Greta Timbuktu

Lemme give you an example of what chatting with her feels like:

Me: "Hi Greta, I'm going to be out all day...any idea what you guys are up to today?"

Greta: *in her thick German accent* "I think I'm going to scrub..."*loud snoring*

Me: *bewildered* Greta! Greta!! Na wa oooooo!!!

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On Thursday, with Bade, Lande and Rrroooott (pronounced 'rrrrooottt' even though her name is Ruth) as witnesses, the mystery has finally been solved.

At 10pm on Thursday 26th August, 2010, Greta Timbuktu was delivered of a bouncing baby boy right on my bed!! Apparently, not even Mr. Timbuktu was aware that she was expecting.



She thought the rest of her family knew she was pregnant, and was even quite irritated at everyone's surprise. Timbuktu acknowledged that there was something she always kept trying to tell him, but would doze off before she could get to.

Nevertheless, Mr. Timbuktu is the proudest father in the world right now!!



Friday

Working Friday all the way!! Took Gigi out for a spin late at night to go pick up some Chinese food for my starving family!!

Also had to eat quite a bit to convince my sisters that my recent loss of appetite is not self-induced!

LOL...as in I can't even believe they think I'm starving myself on purpose!!

Saturday

It was the Bestie's Introduction!!

An Introduction is when a man's family formally comes to make their intentions of marrying a woman for their son, known to her family.

So they bring lots of goodies and plenty, plenty CASH to come and 'introduce' themselves to her family.

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I think I'm the worst Chief-Bridesmaid ever!! As in what kind of maid of Honor is late for the Introduction?!


Seun Oplaleye and Fiance, Zeal Akaraiwe

The eyeing Seun gave me as I walked in late could have transformed me into a pile of vomit!! But I soon wormed my way back into her heart, by making sure she and her fiance's glasses were constantly 'spiked' with vodka!!

If only the Elders there knew that's what we were up to...LOL

This would be my 3rd time being a Maid of Honor...and I think I sucked majorly both times!! HELP..I want to be the best MOH this time!! Tips anyone?!

Stayed up working till about 3am, while also enjoying some old albums I used to LOVE!! John Legend's 'Get Lifted' and R Kelly's 'Chocolate Factory'!!

I almost sang my friend who was working late with me, to INSANITY!!

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Sunday

Lazed in bed till mid-afternoon, when I had to crawl out to go support my girl, Lois.

Former Model, Lois Adevokhai was having the very first Casting Call for her November 18th Modelling Agency, at Ember Creek on Awolowo Road.


Lois Adevokhai

November 18th is soooo going to transform the Business of Model Recruitment and Talent Management in this town...I can feel it!! Lois' immaculate attention to detail and sharp eye for quality are priceless qualities.

Had to dash out of there pretty quick though, as a certain Producer (you know yourself) was trying to spring WORK on me right there and then!! I sha escaped...

Went to show Wonuola Odunsi some love at Le Petit Marche, which was holding at GET Arena...

Was immediately confronted by this SEXY laptop bag by Juliet David-West's JIDZ as soon as i arrived there...



But unfortunately, some very sharp person had paid for it already!! JIDZ has some really SICK hand-made bags...you definitely should check her out!! (07062279484, 08056196619)

It seems WORK was determined to follow me everywhere yesterday...what are the odds that I'd bump into my 360Nobs Boss-Man...


Noble Igwe

Noble sooooo owes me a Strawberry Margarita...he knows what I'm talking about...419!!


Damilola Olaiya & Joke Adepase


Oyindamola Fakeye

Oyinda is starting a Burlesque Class ...I'm sooo excited!! Can't wait for the 2nd of September, when I shall go and make a major fool of myself at her class!!

It's open to EVERYONE...so I guess you can come laugh at me.

Had a very much needed BEING session with Tones at 'The Balcony' later!! I've missed having those!

Since in recent times, I've become a Church Truant, Tones preached the entire sermon from her Church that morning, to me!!

It was about breaking boundaries and limitations, beginning from the mind!! We talked about sooo much, and both shuddered as we imagined about what our lives would have been like if we didn't have a relationship with God.

I left 'The Balcony' feeling very inspired and empowered!! I had also shed a couple of pounds laughing hysterically at Tones and her Man's traumatised reactions to my impulsive singing...it was a great evening!!

I left Tones and went to check out the new Live Band at Base Lounge...


Singer & Tari (Me)

The popular Sharp Band is now LIVE every Sunday at Base Lounge, Silverbird Galleria, Victoria Island. You might know Sharp Band as the in-house Band for M-Net's Comedy Club, Lagos.

Oh..and this Guy here, is the Band's VAIN...yet extraordinary Saxophonist...



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It was one of those really great experiences where, people who come out on their own, end up mixing with those they meet at a place, and before the end of the evening, everyone is dancing together and having a FUN time!!


Tari & Model,Chisom

Yes...that's the SUNDAY AT BASE LOUNGE experience for you!! You must, must, come hang out with us from 6pm next Sunday..I promise you a FABOOSH time!!! (wink at Adaku)

And the food is Amaze-Balls...


That's me eating Gizzard

Went back home to find that I probably need to get married soon, as the Timbuktu family is getting larger by the day, and very soon, there may just be no room for me in my Bedroom...


Meet Gbolahan...the Timbuktu family pet Jau-pard (half Jaguar, half Leopard)

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Hello Guys,

Here are the links for my latest 360 Nobs article and the Interview I granted Third World Profashional *insert the action/thriller sound from a movie*...

'A DARING GIRL'S GUIDE TO ARRESTING A MAN' - 360 Nobs

'TARI EKIYOR: AN INTERVIEW' - Third World Profashional

By the way, grab a copy of this month's edition of TW Mag (in Nigeria) to see the Fashion Shoot I told you I did about a month or more age!!

Tari

Meet The Most Outstanding 'Underground' Artistes

On the 31st of July, 2010, UNDERGROUND, a musical platform established by Inner Circle for the promotion of upcoming Nigerian artistes, held their 2nd edition at Zamunda Lounge, in Victoria Island, Lagos.

Eight young, talented Upcoming Artistes were given the opportunity to perform their tracks before Record Label Executives and established Artistes in the Nigerian Music Industry.

Three Artistes emerged as the Most Outstanding of all the featured Performers. Meet Karma, Steaze & Jazz, three extraordinary talents you need to watch out for in the nearest future...

1st Place) Olumide Harding a.ka. Karma is a Nigerian-born Hip-hop Artiste who has been following his passion since the age of fourteen when he wrote his very first verse, while still a student at Kings’ College, Lagos.



Not even the years spent studying and eventually gaining a degree in Pure & Applied Physics from the Ladoke Akintola College of Technology, Ogbomosho, could separate him from his first love.

Karma draws musical inspiration from whatever environment he finds himself, as well as his mentors, Jay-Z, Method Man, Sound Sultan, Ghostface Killaz, amongst others. He proudly represents Satellite Town, which he declares is ‘the home of the Realest’!!

You can follow @Karmatherapper on Twitter

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2nd Place) Folake ‘Steaze’ Johnson is a woman of many dimensions!!

Rapper, Copywriter, Basketballer, Artist and Graphics Designer, Steaze has the balls to explore all her passions and abilities, with the zeal of an Amazon.



She began her career as a Rapper with a little gospel band called ‘Outstanding’, from Daystar Christian Center, Lagos. Since then, she has done numerous stints with different groups and was even signed on by a Record Label, none of which yielded any fruit for her.

Listen to Steaze's track

Steaze stands solo right now, and has fully embraced Rap music as a medium to communicate the gospel of her life. There is no stopping this graduate of University of Lagos, who earned the nickname ‘Steaze’ due to her ability to always provide fun activity for her peers.

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3rd Place) Lanre Aluko-Olokun popularly known as JAZZ is a young gifted independent Singer/Songwriter and Designer who is currently studying in England.



He currently performs with an England-based Jazz/ Swing band called ‘Tuxedo Swing’ with whom he performs hit songs from the likes of James Brown, Etta James and Cab Calloway. Jazz has also featured at various shows such as Pride of the Motherland at the Indigo O2, London and most recently, Taruwa, in Lagos, alongside Alternative Soul Singer, BEZ.

Listen to Jazz's track

He describes his style of music as a blend of Soul and R&B. Jazz is also interested in other genres of music especially Dance and Pop. As a Songwriter, he writes from his heart and experiences, which he believes allows most people relate to the stories he tells through his music.

His major musical influences are Lauryn Hill, Whitney Houston and Frank Sinatra.


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This Weekend - Social Calendar

A line-up of activities and Events for this weekend, brought to you courtesy 'What's On'...


1) ALTER EGO SUMMER SALES

Running up till the end of August - ankara eyelet jackets, ankara jersey wrap dresses, silk chiffon evening wear all on SALE with up to 65% off.

Venue: Alter Ego, 34D Awolowo Road, Ikoyi, Lagos
Time: All Day.


SATURDAY (28TH AUGUST)


1) THE 100% LEADER

This Annual Youth Leadership Forum is paneled by Tonye Cole, Detoun Ogwo, Seun Shobo and OC Ukeje

Venue: Afe Babalola Auditorium ,University of Lagos, Akoka
Time: 10am - 1pm


2) A RELATIONSHIP SEMINAR

This love thing sef, come learn about exploring differences, what men/women want, heartbreak and more!

Venue: The INCUBATOR, COD Church Road, Dideolu Estate, Off Ligali Ayorinde Street, Victoria Island, Lagos.
Time: 2pm - 5pm


3) BBG SALE: UP TO 40% OFF

Massive SALE with up to 40% off designer items - Prada handbags, Ferragamo Shoes and Bags, Christian Louboutin pumps, fabulous jewellery pieces, trendy dresses and more!

Venue: 1, Adeola Hopewell Str. VI, Lagos
Time: 12pm - 7pm


4) AUGUST MADNESS SALE

10% off all Malaysian, Italian, Spanish, Indian and Brazilian hair. Funky purses, embellishments and accessories from just N2000!

Venue: 10 Adeyemi Lawson Str. Off McPherson, off Bourdillon Ikoyi
Time: All Day Contact: 08056007556


5) CELEBRITY READ AFRICA

Maiden Edition: Come watch your favorite celebs read from their favorite African literature! Featuring Timi Dakolo, Dan Foster and other renowned celebrities.

Venue: Terra Kulture, Plot 1376, Tiamiyu Savage Street, VI
Time: 3pm - 6pm


6) BUYING PARTY

A Chop Box Lagos affair in Ikeja featuring dresses, lingerie and beauty products.

Venue: Call 08095200372 for address
Time: 2pm - 6pm


7) ABUJA WRITER'S FORUM: GUEST WRITER SESSION

Weekly reading and critique sessions. This week will feature Ngozi Onyioha-Orji who is gradually establishing a reputation for dealing with issues of child abuse through her novels.

Venue: Pen and Pages Bookstore, White House Plaza, Plot 79, Adetokunbo Ademola Crescent, Wuse 2, Abuja
Time: 4pm


8) BISHOP'S COTTAGE FAMILY DINNER

This weekend it's going to be FUSION!

Venue: 17b, Bishop Aboyade Cole Str. VI, Lagos
Time: 8pm. Dinner: N3,000


SUNDAY (29TH AUGUST)

NOVEMBER 18TH MODEL MANAGEMENT is holding it's first Open Casting Call this Sunday, 29th August, from 1pm, at Ember Creek, Awolowo road, Ikoyi. Great opportunity for all interested Models between ages 16-25.


1) J-VILLE: SOUL TRAIN SERVICE

Church, passion and purpose unadulterated......like you have never experienced it

Venue: The INCUBATOR, COD Church Road, Dideolu Estate, Off Ligali Ayorinde Street, Victoria Island, Lagos.
Time: 7.30am


2) LPM AUGUST

Monthly flea market, Le Petit Marche is back again. Great food and music, networking and shopping. Amazing discounts and fashionable items.

Venue: GET Arena, Oniru Estate, Lekki
Time: 12 noon


3) THEATRE AT TERRA: THE LION AND THE JEWEL

Final showing of the 4th annual 'Season of Wole Soyinka' - 'The Lion and the Jewel', directed by Wole Oguntokun.

Venue: Terra Kulture, Plot 1376, Tiamiyu Savage Street, VI, Lagos
Time: 3pm and 6pm (Every Sunday in August)


4) R.A.G.E. III

Also known as God's Own Radicals, R.A.G.E III will perform live this Sunday.

Venue: Breath of Life Ministry, 24 Obanikoro Street off Ikorodu Road, Lagos
Time: 4pm

The Chink In My Armour

I have come to realise more and more with each day that passes, that the secret to standing strong in the glare of Public Criticism, is being non-reactive to all feedback - positive and negative.

Naturally, the positive evokes good feelings from within us, and makes us feel pretty good about our skill, and generally about ourselves.

The negative on the other hand, has the directly reverse effect. Like a guided missile, it targets the very core of our self-esteem, with a precise assignment to destroy.

I have been hit regularly by the arrow in the past, and it usually left me for days on end doubting my skill, my value, and ultimately, myself.

It was in one moment of clarity that I realised that my value as a Writer and as a Human Being, was not dependent on anyone's judgement or opinion.

Oh...the liberty I experienced in that timeless moment!!

After that, I learned to appreciate the positive feedback with a simple nod and half-smile, while also receiving the negative and downright mean with the same gesture.

The ability to do that is enabled by a simple approach: I have determined my own measure of success for every piece of work that comes from me.

"Does this material meet my standard?" I'd ask myself. Interestingly, there are some material I put out, which even after releasing, I knew deep in my heart it did not measure up to my standard of quality...but everyone would actually RAVE about it!!

At those times, I laugh in the quietness of my heart and silently thank God for the day He released me from the bondage of Public Affirmation.

However, once in a while, I sadly discover that there still exists a chink in my armour. An expectation which gives access to either the rose or the missile.

Then at the point I realise I've been hit, its a little too late. The weakness sets in, the blood oozes out and the seed takes root.

In that moment, I lift up my eyes. I say to the One who girded me in the armour in the first place..."I'm sorry, I misplaced my expectation"

And in His mercy, He uproots the deeply entrenched (and still travelling) root; He stops the flow of blood and seals up the wound. Then He blocks the chink in my armour and sows a new seed in my heart: His seed.

So here I am; brand new all over again!! A fresh armour, a renewed mind and a contented heart.

If you or anyone you know is ever going to thrive in the face of Public (and even Private)Criticism, be sure to take up the FULL armour of God.

The only other option is Drugs, Excessive AlcohoL or any other form of harmful substituted reality. Trust me...I know.

Beware of the chink in your armour.

The Concubine Factor

Reading Elechi Amadi's classic novel 'The Concubine', has reminded me about why I grew in love with Literature in the first place.

Its been such a long time since I was drawn into a novel; into the lives of the characters within, rooting for them and carrying their experiences with me into my own reality.

At some point, I actually began to believe there might be something terribly wrong with me, because I just wasn't enjoying any books!!

Every book which has been raved about recently, I went and bought, but was unable to go beyond the first 5 pages, as the Writer's failed to engage me in those all important moments.

I'm a very impatient Consumer of Literature. I'm that person who would walk out of the Cinema in 10mins, if my attention has not been gripped by then.

I even assume that consumers of my work are as impatient as I am, so I bust my ass in every piece to hold your attention from the very first line and keep it till the end.

But reading 'The Concubine' re-awakened my love for great material. The characters were so alive; their experience so rich, yet simple and relatable.

I could see myself in their thoughts, their struggles; and could mirror my own desires, in their motivations.

Ihuoma: a woman of great moral courage.

I finished the book like two weeks ago, but I still think about her. A timeless and universal Heroine; a globally relevant character, even though her entire experience remained within the back civilisation of an ancient Eastern Nigerian village.

At different points in the story, I put the book down, and challenged some of Elechi Amadi's theories, his perspectives and even the traditions practised and highly esteemed by his characters and their society.

I googled him, to try and get an understanding of his values, so that I could project how he would end the story.

I asked myself, "Is he a Romantic, a Realist or a core Traditionalist?"

After a while, I decided to stop being obsessive and just like every other sane person, wait to see what will happen at the end.

'The Concubine' re-affirmed my belief that some of the greatest stories ever told, have come from the African Writers Series.

Can you ever forget that proud chauvinistic, Man's man called Okonkwo?!

I still cringe at some of his unapologetic actions, but doff my head in admiration at his unwavering stand against the obliteration of his culture, in the face of the greatest challenges.

Literature is all about the communication of stories.

Great stories contain timeless characters, with journeys that transform even the lives of those who are told the stories.

Our classic African Writers told us stories just as they saw them. They did not try to conform to any foreign standards, or bow to the pressure to be a bit more 'Western'.

They documented our Culture shifts, celebrated our African-ness and connected us in the simplicity of our shared heritage and values.

To the Elechi Amadi's, Chinua Achebe's, Ama Ata Aidoo's, Wole Soyinka's and all those rare set of African Literature Giants, known and unknown, who embraced no compromise in their sacred responsibility as Custodians of our Culture, my STANDING OVATION is for you.

WE ARE AFRICANS....Awuuuuuuuuu!!!!!

Helloooo,

Check out some of my latest posts on Bella Naija & 360Nobs...

'FROM PAIN TO PEACE'- Bella Naija

'ONLY THE INSANE DESIRE TRUE FRIENDSHIP' - Bella Naija

'TOP OF THE FOOD CHAIN: THE MAIN SQUEEZE' - 360 Nobs

'MY SIDE CHICK DAYS ARE OVER'- 360 Nobs

Enjoy...

Tari

Two-Timing Tari : Initiating Project Research & Rebellion

All my life, I’ve always thought of myself as one little Rebel.

I have a stubborn inclination within myself to always want to do the exact opposite of what I know I shouldn’t be doing. However, my lifetime of experience in the game of Rebelliousness failed me this past weekend.

This had to be the longest weekend ever!! I had no idea how much a deliberate attempt to keep myself away from Mr. Smooth was going to affect me. My mind was inundated with thoughts of him; memories and flashes from times we’ve spent together. Every single thing I saw, ate, felt, heard and imagined, reminded me of him.

What has that suave son of a gun done to me, I wonder? It was the very last of my willpower that it took to hold me back every single time I thought of him. All I wanted was to escape from my self-imposed prison of Smooth Deprivation, and run over to his lair on the 98.1 frequency, pouring myself at his feet and nuzzling my hair and cheek against his ankle.

I wanted to curl myself up in his side and drink in the fountain of his magnificent scent. I wanted to gaze admiringly into his beautiful eyes as he displayed his extensive knowledge of World Politics, Astronomy, Meta-Physics, Human Relationship Dynamics, World History, Nature and every other subject he so intelligently teaches me about when we’re together.

Oh, how I love the mind of my Mr. Smooth. He knows something about everything. There is no question I ask of him, that he doesn’t give an enlightened answer to. His understanding is like the sand on the sea-shores all around the coast of Lagos.

With tears in my eyes right now, I declare to you that I’m terribly missing him.

But I feel as though I have to do this. Please tell me, is the way I feel about him normal?

Are my responses to him natural?

I’ve NEVER missed the Sunday Brunch tradition that Mr. Smooth and I share; but this Sunday I deliberately kept myself away.

I was a nervous wreck!! Made even more so by the fact that he didn’t even call to find out why I didn’t show up.

Could it be that my earlier suspicion of him not caring about me was right? Am I merely a disposable convenience to Mr. Smooth?

But his eyes say something different when we’re together. The way he looks at me cannot be a lie. His gaze is usually filled with such tenderness toward me, like he would NEVER allow anything hurt me.

I really am confused...

So it was a very welcome escape for me, when Mr. Classic invited me for a ride on a luxury jet he had chartered for the weekend.

I was also slightly surprised, I had no idea Mr. Classic rolled like that. But I asked no questions, simply packed a little Vanity Case and made my way into this Classic Flight.

It was a different side of Mr. Classic I experienced this weekend. Between you and me, I felt he was trying a little to be like Mr. Smooth to me.

When I told him about my affair last week, he did ask me what it was about Mr. Smooth that attracted me to him. I told him; maybe I shouldn’t have, as I now get the feeling that Mr. Classic is trying to be a little Smooth to me.

I’m not quite sure if I’m comfortable with that or not. I kind of like Mr. Classic for the person he is.

Gosh!! Not what I needed at all!! There I was trying to escape from Mr. Smooth, and now I’m trapped on a luxury jet with his Wannabe for what now seemed like a looooonnngg tin!!

I immediately felt guilty pangs after having that thought. Mr. Classic was only making an effort to bring what he imagined was ‘wholeness’ to our relationship. I had hurt him with my infidelity, yet he had forgiven me and is now trying hard, even going out of his comfort zone, to make us work.

I should be ashamed of myself for looking down on him because of that. My heart immediately warmed to him, and I proceeded to give him an experience only the hazy clouds could document, if only they had eyes and ears!!

Needless to say, Mr. Classic was speechless after that; but he soon recovered and chased me all around the empty aircraft, for being such a naughty girl. I hoped the Pilots didn’t mistake our rumbling for turbulence!!

I was sooooo happy to have my REAL Classic Man back!! I squealed delightfully as we laughingly played all over the place. I was so happy!!

After a while, we lay down on the floor and enjoyed the silent humming of the vessel, as it cut across the dark skies like a seasoned Predator.

At that point I remembered that I was supposed to be on a mission with Mr. Classic also. This was not going to be easy, he’s such a sweetheart, and I hate to make him even slightly uncomfortable. Silly me, why would asking him any questions make him uncomfortable?

I’ve practically shared my entire life with him; he knows everything about me, down to the piercings I have...

I turned to face him and rested my head on his shoulder as he drew me close to him. Then I quietly asked:

“What was it like for you growing up?”

He lifted his head, and peered closely at me, looking a little surprised. There was also something in his eyes I’d never seen before.

Then he stood up so abruptly that my head lost its balance and hit the floor with a resounding thud..

To be continued...

Current Location: Bedroom
Issue on Ground: Eemm..norrin mush..just pacing
Current Solutions: Forget solutions for now...just ENJOY...

I really, really love Cece Winans 'Throne Room' album!!

I'm drawn in every single time I listen to it. First time I ever experienced it was like 6-7yrs ago!

I remember, I just used to drive to and from school all caught up in the amazing worship it creates!!

That's one album that few months ago, I actually went to look for the original copy to buy!

The one I had back then was pirated and even got lost. But when I wanted it this year I knew I would be a Biatch if I didn't put some money into Cece's pocket for what I know I will (and have) enjoyed from it.

So now I've reconnected with the experience all over again and this time LEGALLY...Lol

Every song on this album, I carry with me at different points in time..and they're about 15. (Ok there's one I no de too feel sha...and its playing right now)

In this 'Throne Room' album, she's mostly speaking TO God, worshipping Him and telling Him how wonderful He is.

However in the 'Purified' album (which came out after this), she's speaking FROM God. Like she's HIS Voice, telling you and I deep things from the heart of God.

Its amazing!!! *contented sigh*

Ooooohhh....and guess who went on a date today?!! *smiling mischievously*

*in sing-song voice* I'm NOT TELLINNNGGG.......*now whistling*

Live from MTN Special Industry Nite

All roads led to Villa Medici, venue of the MTN Industry Nite Special, on Wednesday 18th August, 2010.

It was a memorable evening, with live music from the sensational Big Teddi Band as well as performances by some exceptional artistes, including DJ Zeez and Mo'Cheddar.

Mr Bambo Adewopo, Director General of the Nigerian Copyright Commission and C.E.O. of Storm 360, Obi Asika, were Guest Speakers at the event.

I was also there, and I brought you some souvenirs...





Don't you just love the mean-looking guy in the painting behind?!! LOL..






Mo'Cheddar performing


DJ Zeez performing


Mo'Cheddar & Celebrity Fashion Photographer, Toni Tones


Classic FM's Chico


Reggae Sensation, Benny Paladin


Soul-Hip-hop Singer, ObJazz, Tari & Cool Fm's N6

I'm always super-excited whenever I meet people who read my Blog!! At first a little shy, as I feel kind of exposed, but excited all the same...was no exception when I met this young Lawyer...


Yemi Immanuel


Matthew Ohio of INDUSTRY NITE caught by my Paparazzi lens...Lol


Actor & M.C, Jason Nwoga & I


Reggae/Hip-hop Artiste, Maranzu Odun & Toni Tones

Maranzu is such an amazing singer and performer!! I'm really excited about her music and I know you all will be also...she's super talented!!!


Matthew Ohio & I


Mo'Cheddar


Singer from Big Teddi Band & I


Bayo Omisore & Toni Tones


Tobi Okunade

My Weekend In Pictures (and words)

Thursday

I had entered one of my classic anti-social, don't want to see or talk to anyone, lock myself in and the whole world out, trapped in my mind modes.

I remained like that the entire day, burying myself in work, until the Bestie came and dragged me out of it in the evening.

She stayed a little, we gisted and basically chilled....I went right back into that mode as soon as she left.

Friday

Remained in that dangerous state all day...then sometime in the evening, couldn't make any headway on an article, so figured it might be because I have not breathed fresh air or interacted with anyone in quite a bit.

So I took a shower, summoned Gigi (my chariot/car) and headed to my neighbourhood Bar/Suya Spot for a beer and some random company.



My goodness, that was exactly what I needed!!

I absolutely love the thrill of making a pure human connection!! I'm sitting somewhere, no-one has a clue who I am, or even cares. I spent my evening having an interesting conversation and drinks with two random guys who don't know each other or me.

We talked about everything!! Nigeria, the coming Elections, traffic in Lagos, Blackberry groups...it was a refreshing time. Made even more interesting by the fact that we actually didn't know each other's names and only introduced ourselves as we parted ways.

It's really nice when you meet people and interact from a non-gender, non-status, non-anything perspective!! It's just purely human minds meeting and making a connection and we all go our seperate ways, impacted by the strangers we shared a small part of ourselves with.

I love it!!

My friend Kemi Alaiyemola (I call her Moggy-Lee) soon came to drag me out of the house after I returned home.

We went Base Lounge chilling...


Kemi Alaiyemola - The brain behind popular toning lotion, Kemi's Souffle

Moggy-Lee has to be one of the most generous people on this planet!! We've been friends since Queens' College, and even though I sometimes am convinced she's insane, she's always been my darling!!

I call her my Gold Rush also, as she always randomly gives me gold jewellry!! I'm talking like really expensive gold jewellry...in fact this weekend, she's given me two new pairs of shoes!!

So you understand what I mean about her generosity!!!


Kemi & I

We had a great time at Base Lounge as usual!! Not surprisingly, I was yet again captivated by a certain female dancing...you could tell the girl knew she was too bad, and was even trying to pretend that she wasn't aware that all eyes were on her, by focusing on her Blackberry the entire time!!

She was wearing a very short, tight skirt and a vest...yet she kept dancing and going to the floor, regardless of her short skirt. Then she'd be touching herself all provocatively...

Kai..sometimes, I feel sorry for guys sha!!

Her dancing was so legendary that Kemi and I were practising it in front of the mirror when we got back home!!

Before we got home though, we made a stop at a club where I witnessed a showdown that I would have said was impossible up until that point!!

There is only one word to describe what I witnessed....FAAAAJJIIIIII!!!!!

We got back home and just as we were about to sleep, I told Moggy-Lee to say good night to the Timbuktu's...the nuisance told them "Rest In Peace" instead!!

I almost sent her out of my house...can you imagine?!!

Saturday

My very good boyfriends, who are also a group of Fashion Designers called Onyx & Pearl, were showing their first collection at a Fashion Show/Competition called 'Sashay As We Say'...I went to show my love!!

I was sooo proud of them, as not only did they impress the heck out of the Judges with the edginess and freshness of their Collection, they also WON the award for Best Designers!!!


Oyakhire, 'Debayo, Seun & Dapo of ONYX & PEARL

The have brilliantly combined their individual strengths in Business, Media Marketing and Design, to form this working partnership!!

I have no doubt about how successful they'd be because their ALL really great guys, with the most wonderful hearts!!


'Debayo Oke-Lawal

Sunday

Had an Interview with Adaku, for her blog called Third World Profashional, at Cafe Royale.


Adaku

I cringe in anticipation of the day she publishes that Interview...I'm shy!!!! *now covering my face and hiding under my desk*

Later went to hang out with the Bestie, and then eventually with Tones, who shared some wonderful news with me!! I'm soooo excited for her....nuff said!!

Then came back home, and it was time for a Family Portrait with the Timbuktu's...

This Weekend - Social Calendar

This weekend's line-up of activities, brought to you courtesy 'What's On'


FRIDAY (20TH AUGUST)


1) EAST MEETS WEST

Fine Wine. Great food. Bishop's Cottage Family Dinners, the place to be. Bring your own bottles if you like.

Venue: Bishop's Cottage, Bishop Aboyade Cole Street. VI, Lagos
Time: 8pm


SATURDAY (21st AUGUST)


1) 'SASHAY AS WE SAY' - FASHION SHOW

A fashion show with a difference, organised by Trendy, Bold & Righteous (TBR) featuring mind-blowing designs from ONYX & PEARL amongst other designers!



Venue: Daystar Christian Center, 71 Kudirat Abiola Way, Oregun, Lagos.
Red Carpet begins at 3pm


2) 'THIS IS HOW WE DO' SOUP KITCHEN

Charity group 'This Is How We Do' goes to the streets. An excellent initiative for feeding the masses.
Just bring cartons of indomie and boiled eggs!

Venue: Kuramo Beach or Makoko (TBC) [Contact ayomide@gmail.com]
Time: 9am

3) MONTHLY SPEAKER SERIES

Learn from seasoned mentors, the intricacies of Business, Entrepreneurship and Life in general.

This month hosts the Founder and Chairman of Telnet Nigeria Limited, Dr. Nadu Denloye. Come interact with Dr. Denloye as she shares her business and life experiences with young professionals.

Venue: New Dawn Events Centre, off Ligali Ayorinde Str., VI. (Across the road from Landmark Events Centre)Time: 10am Entry: FREE (please come with your business cards)


4) 3RD INTERNATIONAL ART EXPO

Organised jointly since 2008 by the National Gallery of Art (NGA) and the Art Galleries Association of Nigeria (AGAN), the exhibition will, as usual, feature artworks from Nigerian galleries and participants from outside the country. It will run till Thursday, 26th August.

Venue: National Museum, Onikan, Lagos,
Schedule: Daily from August 21 - August 26

5) FARAFINA BOOKS AT MINI-TRADE FAIR

Farafina titles will be available at giveaway prices (50% off) at the Christ the King Catholic Church mini tradefair holding this weekend.

Venue:CKC, 60, Igbehinadun Street, Akowonjo, Agege, Lagos.
Time: 10am (Both Saturday and Sunday)


6) OSUN OSOGBO FESTIVAL

If you happen to be in that neck of the woods, then be sure to attend this festival to celebrate the Osun Heritage.

Activities include lighting of a 500-year-old 16 point lamp, an art exhibition, golf competition, traditional wrestling, a cultural film show and a beauty pageant. It will run till the 27th of August.

Venue: Osogbo, Osun State
Dates: 16th - 27th August


7) FEMME FATALE (ABUJA)

A coalition of female rappers Sasha, Kel, Lami, Eva, Mo'Cheddah, Waje this Saturday!

Venue: Play Sports Bar & Grill, 167 Adetokunbo Ademola Str. opposite Peniel Apartments, Wuse2, Abuja
Time: Red Carpet at 9pm. By IV only, call 07066604384


SUNDAY (22ND AUGUST)


1) THIS LOVE THINGCome, learn about love, speak your mind and hear the mind of God at J-Ville.

Venue: The INCUBATOR, COD Church Rd, Dideolu Estate, Off Ligali Ayorinde Str., VI, Lagos.
Time: 7.30am

2) HOTR COMBINED SERVICE

Two Special Combined Services at the New Expo Centre with ministering pastor, Paul Adefarasin.

Venue: The New Eko Hotel Expo Centre, Adetokunbo Ademola Str. VI, Lagos
Time: 8am


3) OZORA 1-DAY UNFORGETTABLE SALE

Hobnob with Ozora at Robert's while shopping for contemporary timeless dresses, kaftans in silk, chiffon and Ozora's exclusive embellished purses.

Venue: Robert's Cafe, 16 Akin Olugbade Str. VI, Lagos
Time: 1pm - 9pm

4) SETIA STORE OPENING

An electronic, home and furniture store stocking also fragrances, candles, art work, other home decor and more.

Venue: Shop 7a/b Eleganza Shopping Complex, KM 22 Lekki-Ajah Exp. Way opposite VGC
Time: 2pm - 8pm

5) THEATRE AT TERRA: THE LION AND THE JEWEL

As it continues its 4th annual "Season of Wole Soyinka", the Theatre@Terra presents the Classic Comedy, "The Lion and the Jewel", directed by Wole Oguntokun.

Venue: Terra Kulture, Tiamiyu Savage Street, VI, Lagos
Time: 3pm and 6pm (Every Sunday in August)


6) ABUJA WRITER'S FORUM

Weekly reading and critique sessions.

Venue: 2nd Floor Hamdala Plaza, Jimmy Carter Crescent, Off Area 11 Junction, Abuja
Time: 4pm

7) GORDONS AND FRIENDS

Comedy and Music featuring Basket Mouth, I go die, Gandoki, Seyi Law, Helen Paul, etc. Performances by Omawumi, African China, Durella, Ebony Band and many others.

Venue: Orchid Event Centre, Lekki Exp. Way (700metres from Chevron opposit Oluwanishola House)
Time: 5pm - 10pm Tickets: N3,000 and 5,000 (call 0803266239)


MONDAY (23RD AUGUST)


STAGE PLAY AUDITIONS

Auditions for 'Ajai The Boy Slave' based on the life and times of Samuel Ajai Crowther will take place on Monday.

The play is written and will be directed by Wole Oguntokun.

Venue: The Green Park, 16 Akin Adesola Street, Victoria Island, Lagos
Time: 12pm

LIVE from DeKey Event's Glamourous Anniversary

Occasion: DEKEY Events One Year Anniversary Party
Venue: King's Plaza, Adeniran Ogunsanya Street, Surulere, Lagos
Date: Sunday 15th August, 2010


After one remarkable year of breaking into and carving a niche for herself in the highly saturated Events Industry here in Lagos, Mojisola Awoniyi of DEKEY Events had many reasons to celebrate and show appreciation to those who had supported her in her journey thus far.


Moji Awoniyi

It was a beautiful night; the Buffet was EXCELLENT....shout out to Seun Opaleye of Christiana's Cuisine who was one of the Caterers responsible!!


Moji & her lovely Hostesses


Leke Adenuga


Layemi, Damola, Joke, Moji, Seun Opaleye, Lawumi & Dami Olaiya


Designer, MAI Atafo


Macy & Biodun


Moji & Me


DEKEY Hostess displaying some of their Work Outfits


Doyin Ojora




Moji & her Pastor


Moji & her Team


Bisola & Ify


Seun Opaleye of Christiana's Cuisine & Me


Moji & Eldee

Wishing you many, many more great years of fruitful Business and great Buffets for ME!!!