tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post6356495080919358071..comments2023-12-28T09:53:00.626+01:00Comments on TARIERE: "I Love You, but I can NEVER tell you what I did!!"Tarierehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02986342279914066015noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post-38684040718556000992010-05-18T19:02:20.205+01:002010-05-18T19:02:20.205+01:00Nice 1 Here is a great story you can enjoy sis htt...Nice 1 Here is a great story you can enjoy sis http://buwai.blogspot.com/2009/12/seventh-man-my-sabbath-my-husband-my.htmllamentationperveritashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232020696458245629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post-19576325077159733452010-05-18T18:15:39.223+01:002010-05-18T18:15:39.223+01:00Thanks Miss Paul...and I really, really do hope so...Thanks Miss Paul...and I really, really do hope so toooooo!!Tarierehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02986342279914066015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post-7366232156054291272010-05-18T12:31:21.538+01:002010-05-18T12:31:21.538+01:00So sorry to hear about ur "Quiet Mode" a...So sorry to hear about ur "Quiet Mode" and the reasons behind it....wit regards ur question...there is honestly no Degree of Disclosure that should not be reached.....its up to u to determine if what u have done is right for you to tell the spouse or friend....like u said he had told u not to do such and u did and decided to tell him...you were being honest but u know we humans are very different we all handle situations in different ways....i dnt see anythg wrong wit ur honesty cos its the same thingi would do...but just for next time try to be discreet about it...u dnt ve to disclose everything to ur spouse or friends...cos u can only know what they think by what they tell you but u never know what they really think in their mind......I hope u get ur two friends back.....Miss Paulnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post-7318829207006592382010-05-17T19:58:49.562+01:002010-05-17T19:58:49.562+01:00@Anonymous: Somewhat eh...lol
@Drjay: thanks. I d...@Anonymous: Somewhat eh...lol<br /><br />@Drjay: thanks. I do understand from the perspectives of both my friends..when stuff like that hits u unexpectedly especially if uv become very comfy in the relationshp, it can be very difficult to re-invest ur trust and entire self into the relationshp again. So I get it..Tarinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post-7823854697989676782010-05-17T19:03:33.815+01:002010-05-17T19:03:33.815+01:00Hey tari, first of all... I absolutely love your b...Hey tari, first of all... I absolutely love your blogs... its fresh, thot provoking and it flows naturaly... well, ve been in a similar situation maself. I let a very close friend of mine into certain secrets i held in my heart. It really confused her and in the end I had to "pull the rug" on the relationship/friendship if you like. I sometimes believe there is a blindspot... i.e. I believe at a certain level of closeness, people still want to maintain their identity and stay true to what they believe. There are some of us, like you, like me that bet all on the ones we love. It's not a bad thing its just, we have to understand the value system of people close to us and adapt accordingly. The second guy that decided not to trust you anymore for me is missing the whole idea of intimate friendship. For me my intimate friends are only that i.e. intimate because they are there to cover my weaknesses... we are there to cover for each other... make sacrifices...et al.... so i wouldn't bother wiv him... tho it mgt be painful... Mr First Guy shld chill nw... haba... maybe its time to seek new lines.... of friendship...drjaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2697760777252937704.post-66593251322494384952010-05-17T18:46:42.415+01:002010-05-17T18:46:42.415+01:00Full disclosure, please!; well, somewhat.Full disclosure, please!; well, somewhat.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com